Life is pretty simple. When your asking for apples and life hands you lemons, make a lemonade. If your on your way out and it starts to rain at least you dont have to water the plants anymore. Its a matter of seeing things and perspectives.
The benifit may not be immediate or obvious, but you have to know this for sure: There will be problems, there will be struggles. Have faith. Enjoy life. Take it easy. If today your picking up the grapes, tomorrow you'll be drinking the wine.