We grow old and suddenly we want to hurry things. Dont commit when you're not ready. Dont keep others waiting endlessly. To fulfill your parenting fantasies, get a puppy. Dont bring another life into this world for all the wrong reasons. To keep yourself warm, buy a jacket. In the long run, it will be less complicated and less costly.
Take care of yourself. Dont wait for someone to take care of you. No one completes you - except YOU.